Comments on: let them take responsibility http://www.she-teaches.com/2009/11/24/let-them-take-responsibility/ a Day in the Life of a Teacher Tue, 24 Aug 2010 03:13:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Myla http://www.she-teaches.com/2009/11/24/let-them-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-1002 Myla Tue, 08 Dec 2009 20:07:37 +0000 http://www.she-teaches.com/?p=168#comment-1002 @sterndal, np. ikaw naman... syempre open yan for discussion. @ruthi, inunahan kang magsumbong tas baliktad pa. hehehehe. @sterndal, np. ikaw naman… syempre open yan for discussion.

@ruthi, inunahan kang magsumbong tas baliktad pa. hehehehe.

]]> By: ruthi http://www.she-teaches.com/2009/11/24/let-them-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-982 ruthi Sun, 06 Dec 2009 23:14:32 +0000 http://www.she-teaches.com/?p=168#comment-982 I can relate to this. It just happened to me very recently. Same thing... kids' fight over petty things. Both kids didn't want their parents to know about it so I just told them I won't tell but they have to make up and be friends again. Apparently, both kids told their parents and the following day, one of the parents approached me and asked me how I handled the situation. I told her the truth and guess what... her kid told otherwise, making me the bad guy. She told the mom that I was rude to her because she didn't want to get in trouble. Oh well... what would I do? I just shrugged a shoulder because I dont want to appear defensive. I can relate to this. It just happened to me very recently. Same thing… kids’ fight over petty things. Both kids didn’t want their parents to know about it so I just told them I won’t tell but they have to make up and be friends again. Apparently, both kids told their parents and the following day, one of the parents approached me and asked me how I handled the situation. I told her the truth and guess what… her kid told otherwise, making me the bad guy. She told the mom that I was rude to her because she didn’t want to get in trouble. Oh well… what would I do? I just shrugged a shoulder because I dont want to appear defensive.

]]> By: sterndal http://www.she-teaches.com/2009/11/24/let-them-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-920 sterndal Thu, 03 Dec 2009 06:48:40 +0000 http://www.she-teaches.com/?p=168#comment-920 hi myla ay hindi dapat pala binasa ko muna ng dalawang beses yung post bago ako nag-comment kaya siguro palagi na lng nadi-delete yung mga comments kasi palagi ko ginagawa yung sa URL thanks for the info happy blogging! hi myla

ay hindi dapat pala binasa ko muna ng dalawang beses yung post bago ako nag-comment

kaya siguro palagi na lng nadi-delete yung mga comments kasi palagi ko ginagawa yung sa URL

thanks for the info

happy blogging!

]]> By: Myla http://www.she-teaches.com/2009/11/24/let-them-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-828 Myla Sat, 28 Nov 2009 10:50:23 +0000 http://www.she-teaches.com/?p=168#comment-828 @sterndal i did explain to the mothers what happened. i was really careful not to put the blame on one particular child so as not to give them the feeling that I am talking <i> against</i> their child or that i am on particular kid's side. they haven't heard their child's version of the story yet. i was first talk to them about it. i was sort of imagining that they tell me something like "don't worry i'll speak to my child about it." but that was not the case. both of them immediately concluded that it is completely the fault of the other child. i haven't actually told them how to discipline their child. i <strong><em>wanted</em></strong> that they'll talk to their child about it but i didn't even tell them to do that. i just told them what happened in the class and the blog post is really just about my dislike of their reaction. btw, i don't know why but your comment went in the spam box. i supposed you're supposed to put your blog's URL and not the URL of a particular blog post otherwise it will just to the spam box. anyway, i was glad that i retrieved it before i emptied the spam box. @sterndal

i did explain to the mothers what happened. i was really careful not to put the blame on one particular child so as not to give them the feeling that I am talking against their child or that i am on particular kid’s side.

they haven’t heard their child’s version of the story yet. i was first talk to them about it.

i was sort of imagining that they tell me something like “don’t worry i’ll speak to my child about it.” but that was not the case. both of them immediately concluded that it is completely the fault of the other child.

i haven’t actually told them how to discipline their child. i wanted that they’ll talk to their child about it but i didn’t even tell them to do that. i just told them what happened in the class and the blog post is really just about my dislike of their reaction.

btw, i don’t know why but your comment went in the spam box. i supposed you’re supposed to put your blog’s URL and not the URL of a particular blog post otherwise it will just to the spam box. anyway, i was glad that i retrieved it before i emptied the spam box.

]]> By: sterndal http://www.she-teaches.com/2009/11/24/let-them-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-827 sterndal Sat, 28 Nov 2009 10:30:45 +0000 http://www.she-teaches.com/?p=168#comment-827 mmmm .... based on my personal experience, it's normal for parents to take sides when their kids get into trouble they usually blame the other kid because they tend to hear only their child's side of the story especially if they feel that their kid got hurt so my advise is just explain them situation and then let them be. they're old enough to know what to do it would be unwise to preach parents about child discipline because they may think that you are dictating them on how to raise their kids hehe eh opinion ko lang naman :) :) :) mmmm ….

based on my personal experience,

it’s normal for parents to take sides when their kids get into trouble

they usually blame the other kid because they tend to hear only their child’s side of the story especially if they feel that their kid got hurt

so my advise is just explain them situation and then let them be. they’re old enough to know what to do

it would be unwise to preach parents about child discipline because they may think that you are dictating them on how to raise their kids

hehe

eh opinion ko lang naman :) :) :)

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